The main airports serving the Bay Area areSan Francisco International (SFO), San Jose International (SJC), and Oakland International (OAK). For our wedding either SFO or SJC is a good choice.
Check out air fares and travel dates at Travelocity.
In the Bay Area lodging starts around $85 per night and goes up from there. Here's a few motels/hotels that are within 15 minutes of our wedding festivities. This is only a starting point. You can find more atTravelocity.
Here's a short list of maps to places relevant for the occasion:
The Bay Area has a lot to offer the tourist -- food, museums, performing arts, parks, sports, universities, beaches ... Here's a short list of tour information: